I guess we're officially trying once the car is paid off.
Since Jason told his parents and all.
Coincidentally, his mom asked him if we were ever having another kid, the very same day my mom posed the same question. I think they're in cahoots.
Not knowing that he had told his parents, I answered my mom very vaguely, simply saying that the door was open (which is true).
But once I found out he told his mom, I feel this pressure to keep things as "even" as possible, so I told my mom as well.
I will say, telling people definitely gives it more of a "real" feeling.